I've been thinking about a new topic for this week's journal entry, and I have decided to do a different sort of format than usual... although my style is fairly eclectic as it is. ;-) Thus, I will make this post more of an 'open forum,' so to speak.
For those of you who have a DD / Traditional Marriage or relationship, how did it get brought up? Did you or your partner initiate the discussion? Was it a non-negotiable for your continued relationship? How do you live out your traditional relationship?
For those of you who want such a relationship, what ideals are you seeking in your partner? What about a loving, dominant man appeals to you? or, if you are male, what kind of woman are you seeking? What would your ideal relationship be like?
If you are already married or are in a committed relationship and desire a traditional approach, how do you plan on bringing it up to your partner? What do you think a traditional relationship could do for you? Alternatively, what are your fears?
Looking forward to hearing from you all...
With Fondness and Best Wishes,
Traditional Wife
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Master and I began our relationship in August of 2006. That June I discovered Mr. LDD. I came to him and shared with him what I had learned. On June 4, 2006 we officially entered into a LDD relationship. Our relationship is non-negoticiable Master has stated several times that he will not back down from being my HOH. Our life is just the same as a vanilla couple...but with rules and consequences.
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HI Traditional Wife,
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Carol
22/5/2009 02:47:11 pm
Hi Traditional Wife, I have visited your site quite a few times as I find your way of life very interesting. I am not in a DD relationship, my husband and I have been married for many years and from time to time I have hinted at my desire in being submissiive to him, he finds it kind of amusing but has never shown any interest in being the leader or the head of the house.I would love to try this lifestyle but at the moment must be content with reading about others who are lucky enough to be living the life that makes them happy.I yearn for structure and discipline and I long to give myself over to my husband completely but alas I doubt that will ever happen in the way that I wish it would. I am not complaining I have a very fortunate life in other ways but I would love my husband to be the dominate partner.I enjoy your writing very much I would like to hear more about your life and the workings of your day to day existence.Kind Regards Carol.
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23/5/2009 02:56:09 am
Thank you to everyone who has already posted! Your stories are so beautiful, and so truly meaningful! Thank you for sharing with us. :)
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23/5/2009 03:02:56 am
Carol,
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Jan
26/5/2009 07:08:23 am
I had been doing research on line for months, almost a year. I didn't know but my husband saw some of the web sites when I forgot to close them before leaving the computer.
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Sarah M
26/5/2009 01:31:03 pm
My very gentle husband informed me one day that he could not take anymore of my arguing and fighting. We had fights all the time and he likes everything calm.
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Kelly P.
30/5/2009 05:33:07 am
I begged my husband for a DD relationship for years and he said no. Then we went through a time where there were several major decisions to be made and we could not agree we fought constantly and neither of us was willing to give an
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Concered Indivisual
18/6/2011 01:38:49 am
Okay, I just read over all of the stories on this page, and it honestly makes me teary eyed. With all do respect, this is no way to go. The man is not dominant in anyway, woman to not need to surrender to such nonsence, we cannot show them we're vaulenerable- after fighting for women to vote, and to not be home slaves. Just because you didn't finish the laundry you earn a serve punishment? This is retarded if you ask me, although I'm only fourteen and I have no room to judge, but this sickens me that these men had the gut to brainwash you poor women. This is just giving men another reason to say they're better then women, for we are all equal, and no man that has ever walked the earth, is better then another woman/man. I'm not judging your beliefs, or constructing a new way of life, or even critizing your ways of living, rather sharing my opinion, which I am entitled to. Honestly, though this is very very sad.
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bobbi
22/7/2012 03:03:52 am
I disagree......the only thing that womans rights have done that was good for woman was give them a choice. The woman here choose this lifestyle, they can leave when they want , most woman bring dd to their partner , read more my darling about this life style , do not take pitty on them most feel they need it. Its in the bible! There is a difference between dominant and domineering, selfish and selfless. This is a beautiful loving relationship. Read more and judge less. Xox
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Traditional Wife
18/6/2011 09:21:45 am
Dear Concerned,
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