For Holy Lent, I am hereby committing to the following: giving up one thing and to the taking up of one thing. Additional forms of penance--prayer, fasting, or alms giving-- may be added throughout the period of Lent, under the supervision of, and with the permission of, my husband.
For the former, I give up all instances of verbal self negativity, and as best to my ability, negative self thoughts. Furthermore, when given a compliment, I will humbly and gracefully accept the statement and thank the person who is giving it.
For the latter, I take up the task of perfect obedience to God, through the Queenship of Blessed Mary Most Holy, and in particular, through the authority of my husband. I will obey him in all things, even the most small-- in request, command, or anticipated expectance-- wholly and unreservedly, and to the best of my ability, with a meek and cheerful heart. I have the right to petition him in rare circumstances, but if my request is denied, then I will freely submit myself to my husband's will.
I acknowledge that my husband's rightful authority over me is complete and all-encompassing, and as such, he may ask anything of me and it shall be done. Furthermore, all areas of my life are subject to his judgment-- food choices, clothing, activities, speech, etc. I acknowledge that my husband has the right to add additional penances to my Lenten discipline. I also acknowledge that my husband has the right to devote a certain amount of time--be it a day, a few day, a week, etc..-- to teach or to correct me, for purposes of my formation as his wife.
Furthermore, as a way of acknowledging the authority of my husband, and thereby affecting my meekness and humility, I vow to use the proper title, "Sir," when responding to direct, authoritative questions, commands, etc. by him.
I make these promises to God this day, Ash Wednesday 2009, with the permission and assent of my husband, under the pain of sin.
(My husband's name): I have read the above and give my consent to my wife's undertaking of these Lenten sacrifices.
________________________________ (My Husband's Signature)
________________________________ (My Signature)
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Chessy
30/4/2009 06:18:01 pm
Parts of this post are like a beautiful prayer. I am astounded to find such awesome Catholic content in relation to this topic. I discovered CDD 8 months ago and I had never heard the verses on submission addressed in a homily. I was taught that it was cultural. When the Holy Spirit led me to CDD, I instantly believed the bible verses and understood why there was conflict in our marriage. However, I have not found support for these ideas within the Church. I am please to find your site and hope to learn more of what I need to fully accept my place in this journey.
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Tragudia
30/5/2009 02:15:35 am
Beautiful words. Beaufiful approach to life ane marriage.
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